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Hello there! My name is Richard Head....actually it's not. Any parent cruel enough to name their child Dick Head should be dealt with sternly, but that's the topic of a different blog. The topic of my blog, and the reason I'm not using my real name is "WAYS TO SCREW YOUR SPOUSE IN A DIVORCE"
You see, I'm a lawyer. I do a large amount of family law and have for a fair number of years. I have seen some incredibly generous, kind and caring people that have suffered through the divorce process with great personal character and treated each other with extreme kindness. After those 2 cases were over and the saints went home I dealt with the other 9,998 jerks, assholes and creeps who want nothing more than to screw their soon to be ex over in the most painful way possible.
The lengths these people would go to are incredible. If they would put half as much energy into their marriages they probably wouldn't have needed me!
Over the years I have begun to notice that many...okay most...of my good stories told over drinks start with "I had this client..." Now I would like to share those stories with you. I am changing the names of the parties and enough of the key facts to keep anyone from figuring out who any of these people are but the core of each story is factual. Or at least the truth as related to me by my client and I'm sure they wouldn't lie to me...
This is a collection of short stories about how people try to "win" their divorce. The steps they take to screw over their spouse before, during and after the divorce. This is not advice, legal or otherwise. You'll notice that often the person pulling the stunt ended up on the wrong side of the judge and the divorce.
